Infidelity in relationships
Where to start. I’ll say first that this isn’t going to be one of those life-coaching type blogs. I’m no expert on any subject, especially this one. Once in a while though, I do feel the need to touch on the topic – being how it’s affected the lives of some loved ones as well as my own.
I always revert back to one simple word, or question. WHY.
Why do it? Is it really that irresistible of an urge to step outside of your relationship and have sex with another person? I cannot fathom having caused that type of pain to my former spouse of so many years. It’s just something that never entered my head. Does that make me a ‘good person’? NO. I don’t want a ‘pat on the back’ for keeping my promise of monogamy in my marriage.
Infidelity inflicts pain on your partner that can last a lifetime. Whether you choose to work through it and perhaps save your relationship, or to eventually move on – the initial impact will lessen with time, but the scars will remain forever.
I found a very good website that I’d like to share, the link is below. Out of any site I’ve ever found dedicated to the subject, this one is very informative in so many areas.