To each his own. To me my own.

Broken Links vs. Ties That Bind

A few days ago I was rereading an old post which contained a video I’d linked to. Upon clicking the video, I was disappointed to learn the video had been removed – I could no longer view it’s contents. I know there are countless other instances like this, each time leaving the reader (and writer) with that initial pang of disappointment of no longer having access to the linked content.

It made me wonder – why on earth would I put any stock whatsoever in the fact that the video would be there forever and ever amen? It’s a LINK for crying out loud. I was basically relying on someone else’s post to always be there on a whim, whenever I desired to see it.

C’mon link… don’t fail me now.

Anyone who knows me knows I always find a way to compare stuff like this to real life. I know there is nothing in life that’s a sure bet; it’d be stupid to think otherwise. There are, however, certain behaviors and situations we can pay attention to in order to better protect ourselves against that ‘pang of disappointment’ when we do come across those broken links in life.

The ties that bind, though… now that’s some dependable stuff. The ties that bind are rock solid through thick and thin, no matter how vicious the storm it’s weathering at the time is. The ties that bind will not jump ship when times get tough – they bind together even tighter.

KNOT

The ties that bind have unfailing love, devotion and respect. They rise in the morning knowing no matter what the day holds, they will do what they wholeheartedly believe to be the right thing. The ties that bind are completely equal in their endeavors… never unbalanced. The ties that bind are the secure threads that keep you dry as it’s pouring rain outside. The ties that bind safeguard the well being of loved ones with those very threads.

I choose the faithful ties that bind over the links that will almost always eventually break. Even though it’s taken me a lifetime to learn it.

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5 responses

  1. This makes me wonder how many links I have in old posts that don’t work? Great post…one thing I found out when I fell on hard times was that I had a lot of links in my life and not many “ties that bind”…my eyes are open now…

    August 14, 2015 at 7:12 am

    • You’re right. Sometimes it takes time to discern the links from the ties… once you do, that little bit of wisdom is there for life. 🙂

      August 14, 2015 at 12:41 pm

  2. ~Mom

    Amen! Wise words.

    August 14, 2015 at 11:02 am

    • Thanks Mom. 🙂

      August 14, 2015 at 12:41 pm

  3. Comforting thoughts about ties that bind. I like your illustration to go with it. That’s a secure knot. Blessings to you, Bonnie…

    August 15, 2015 at 9:36 am

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