To each his own. To me my own.

Every Rose has it’s Thorn

Since it’s nearing Halloween, I thought I’d share a little non-fiction story with you about the horrors that can occur when you decide to pool resources and get a roommate. Muah-ha-ha-ha…

Seriously though, a person I know is going through one of the hardest times in her life because of this very thing. I’ll call this person Rose.

Rose and her roommate (who I’ll call Thorn) have been friends since they were kids. Having been offered a sweet deal on a townhome from Thorn’s father’s girlfriend, they decided to save a little money and become roommates. It’s a nice enough place, a townhouse condo in a nice area that’s close to both of their workplaces. Each of them brought a cat to the mix, both of which get along fine and play all day. They agreed to split the rent as roommates usually do, even though Rose has brought slightly more to the table as far as furnishings. Rose supplied all the living room furniture, the washer/dryer, barstools, vacuum, most of the kitchen furnishings and much more.

It all started when Rose came home one day from work to find Thorn’s cat had pissed on her bed. In an attempt to nail down the problem, Thorn gets her cat spayed – which didn’t help. For the past week Rose has been shutting the door to her room so Thorn’s cat won’t get in there, now the cat is tearing up the carpet at her door. Just yesterday, she reached the top of the stairs and found where Thorn’s cat had pissed on the carpet there. This has continued to happen even though Rose confronted Thorn on it. You all know what happens if this is allowed to continue… the entire place now reeks of urine.

From the very beginning, Thorn refuses to clean anything. At all. Now cleaning for two, Rose has also discovered that apparently she’s responsible for the costs associated with the cleaning solutions of the house. Bathroom, floor, kitchen, detergents, soaps, you get it. Just yesterday, Rose came home and went to her bathroom where she saw her toilet paper dispenser roll lying empty on the seat where Thorn had seen fit to remove the roll and take to her own bathroom.

I have never. And neither has Rose.

Come to find out, Thorn’s cat is pissing everywhere because Thorn doesn’t see fit to clean it’s litterbox (each cat has it’s own). Even worse… Thorn doesn’t feed her cat, so the cat eats the food that Rose buys for her own cat.

Thorn is not only evasive on any of these issues, but combative in her responses when she does see fit to respond. She answers all questions with another question and has anger management issues. Rose signed a two-year lease on this place (I didn’t know two-year leases even existed?) and now is just sick about doing so.

There should be a code of ethics or something when it comes to co-habitating with a roommate. It doesn’t matter if you’ve known someone all your life or not. I tell myself some things just don’t come to light until the sun comes up and shines on it. Unfortunately by then, it’s too late.


6 responses

  1. A reality horror TV series in the making. Uggh.

    October 22, 2011 at 4:58 pm

    • Bonnie

      Exact-amundo. 😦

      October 24, 2011 at 7:10 pm

  2. Oh no…. And I thought my roommate situation was bad. I hope she can find a way out of that lease. I know there’s probably a fee to end it early, but it might be worth it.

    October 24, 2011 at 9:36 am

    • Bonnie

      Yeah, I advised her to get her lease out and scrutinize it real good. It’s gotta suck to go home to a ‘home’ like that.

      October 24, 2011 at 7:12 pm

  3. Julia (AKA Jules)

    oops, I’ve never experienced anything like that (i mean, I’ve still yet to move out from home!) – and after reading that, I hope I never will experience anything like that!


    October 25, 2011 at 12:40 pm

  4. Bonnie

    I love your name… my own daughter’s name is Julia and also goes by ‘Jewls’. 🙂

    It’s true that you don’t really know someone until you live with them – even if you had a childhood friendship like these two! Unfortunately it’s getting really chaotic with my friend, and something’s gonna have to give real soon. Thanks for stopping by and commenting, Jules!

    October 25, 2011 at 6:06 pm

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