To each his own. To me my own.

Those darn social networks…

My friend Kim over at What Now? It’s a Matter of Inflection… wrote a very nice post yesterday about how much positive energy she’s gotten out of facebook. Keeping up with friends and family updates on facebook does seem to be of the ‘norm’ nowadays. At the risk of looking like a copycat, I’ve got to run with a prime example that coincides closely with her own post.

I have a rut routine in the morning. First I go straight for my little 7-day container of medicine, pretty much consisting of bp meds and vitamins, scoring either a diet coke or diet Dr. Pepper to down them. Then I’ll grab my iPhone, where I’ll quickly graze facebook and twitter to get any up-to-date news and make sure nobody died (seriously, I’ve found this kind of stuff out on there before). I’ve found I don’t need any rss feed on other news channels, since anything newsworthy will appear on either of these two social networks.

C’mon Bon… what’s your point??

Soooo – I wake up this morning to a facebook post by my 23-year old daughter that reads, “I hate hospitals. Ewwww.” Posted at approximately 0327 hours.

Instant panic. Of course, none of the comments posted afterward allude to what actually happened, which is par for the course. My fingers couldn’t text her fast enough this morning.

Why are you texting her, Bon – why not just call her? This is important, after all!!

Today’s generation of children do not answer their cell phone. Additionally, do not bother leaving them a voicemail. If you do prefer to waste your precious time leaving a voicemail, know that it will sit all alone in it’s inbox for years until tumbleweeds begin to float past it. Our kids today only want a written (short) text which they may respond to AT. THEIR. LEISURE. If you know all this beforehand, it’ll save you a lot of time and trouble. Unfortunately since I’m a first-generation parent of the current generation of kids – I’ve had to learn it all the hard way.

I didn’t receive any reply from my daughter until just now, 1104 hours in the morning. The golden text just arrived telling me she is fine, and it was her friend who had cut his hand wide open. While cutting an apple. At three in the morning. Of course, her phone died while waiting 4 hours in the ER, and since she didn’t go to bed until this morning she couldn’t hear Mum’s text! At least now I can finally sigh very loudly breathe easier knowing that she’s okay. You never stop worrying about your kids. I guess it’ll be the same at any age, 23 or 53.

In closing, I guess Kim and I won’t be closing down our facebook accounts anytime soon! I hope everyone out there enjoys a wonderful weekend. 🙂


6 responses

  1. It was danger and we always need to take care of our children.

    Anyway I didn’t know how to use a facebook but I could know it better thanks to you.

    July 10, 2011 at 12:36 am

    • Bonnie

      Yes, I’m so glad you and your wife took steps in making the teacher aware, it was the best thing to do. As far as facebook, I don’t do the games or anything on it – but a lot of people do. I mainly like to keep up with my friends and family, it’s good for that!

      July 10, 2011 at 8:38 pm

  2. I got off facebook because mainly connected with several dozen college guys and gals from over 40 years ago but inbox constantly full with the women reporting every moment of their days, the kids, a new grandchild, stupid surveys, the car, that vacation, shopping, the movie – good grief. I could not stand it anymore.

    July 10, 2011 at 12:43 pm

    • Bonnie

      It surely can be like you describe, Carl. I have those certain few ‘hidden’ where they don’t clog up my newsfeed with nonsense posts.

      July 10, 2011 at 8:40 pm

  3. Glad your daughter is ok!

    July 11, 2011 at 10:44 am

    • Bonnie

      Thanks Thoughtsie! If she were a tad younger and I could still catch her if I were a tad younger she’d really be in for it. 😀

      July 11, 2011 at 9:31 pm

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